looking for intelligence and cultural diversity Hi, and thanks to get visiting my posting
you will notice that I put a picture in my posting to draw your current attention, but then you definitely were disappointed whenever you opened the offer and saw that it was not a picture of myself. Your own first thoughts then, were negative. There's a point to be made here. I hope I somehow am successful during my humble attempt.
I possess read, written and responded to many ads for CL. No, that does not make me an expert, or a judge, but it does, I think, give me a rather unique prospective upon which to draw a number of conclusions (for myself personally at least) as to why the failure pace for actual effective relationship beginnings is so dismal.
Men, ladies,...... we are all to blame...... we lie, we request honesty but really don't give same in exchange.....
we are unrealistic within our expectations, so we miss real opportunities to connect to someone serious.........
of course, we are also wary of each other due to the 'bots and con artists usually that inhabit all these pages, so
we place pictures of cute animals and think about on our advertisings, then demand from the respondent NO PIC, NO REPLY (in caps, of course)
I have experienced to both laugh........ and cry, at our occasionally feeble attempts to establish real relationships while behaving in a manner that would be considered laughable anywhere else but the word wide web.
So folks....... let's be honest. We are all of here because, for justreason or another, we feel this might be a place to locate a friend, a enthusiast, or a mate. Let's give ourselves the chance to be successful. Let's just do untoanother in an truthful, respectful, and believed provoking manner.
If you do not feel comfortable posting a pic, why demand it from the other?
If you do not look like Brad Pitt, don't demand someone seem like Angelina Jolie
If you feel the need to hide some thing about yourself, do not demand honesty from others'
Are all BBW�s beautiful? Does this mean a guy who has the beer gut draping over his testicles and is lbs..... brown locks, hazel eyes.... therefore naturally, my macho DNA requires which i feel most comfortable with a women scaled-down than I.
Truthfully, I have always been most attracted so that you can smaller (yes, I suppose petite is the word) women.
someone smart, articulate, open minded (attractive, sexy, energetic, healthy are also huge plusses)
race, ethnicity completely unimportant. cultural variety strongly encouraged
ok: the actual disclaimer:
IF........... you're seeking a square dance partner, someone to go boot scootin' with on Saturday evening, then wake up on Sunday to follow Nascar with,
If the most exciting thing you have ever done was navigate to th e world wrestling titles,
If you achieved a trip anywhere in the world in a raffle and you chose to visit Las Vegas, or you consider taking your moveable TV camping to help you watch your soap, you probably should just pass this particular post on through.........
: If you think about People Magazine superb literature, reality TELEVISION compelling television drama, or Luby's good dining, we probably won't be hanging out together too much time...........
If you believe George Bush was our greatest Western President, "intelligent design" is actually real science, Obama is preparing "death panels" to determine if grandma and grandpa should live and / or die, or gay people should continue being denied the exact same rights that "straight" people take for granted........ then we probably should never even correspond.
Please you shouldn't be offended if this really is you..... I would like to save both you actually and I a while.
Now, here may be the part, if you've read this lengthy, will tell a person enough about me to allow you to seriously decide basiy am really truly worth writing back.
if you discover beauty and art inside a job well executed,
If music oftentimes (Any music) moves your heart and soul or you feel it within the pit of a person's stomach...... or brings tears of joy for your eyes
If you think about yourself non judgmental and attempt to understand the other sorts of persons' views......
If you think tolerance and understanding are necessary to build connections.......
If you can realize thatpeople can easily disagree and neither of them be "wrong"
or this expecting others to do as you might do inside a given situation can be described as recipe for staying disappointed.......
If you prefer holding hands in public, or the temporary spontaneous display with affection
If you enjoy last minute loving weekend getaways...........
If a skillfully prepared dinner forin a amorous setting and a strong evening cuddling on the couch is something you might enjoy sometimes.............
If you consider lovemaking quality time together........ and a joyous expression ofpeople seeking to please each other and meet eachothers' needs...
and right now...... the most vital part!
......... If you would like never to lose that part of you that thinks as a ....
well after that..... I would anticipate hearing from a person......
PS... I will be more than pleased to send a pic after we can both ascertain that we are actually corresponding having a real person. I'll NOT post a pic to some blind post for instance CL. I hope you realize